HOMOVISION REHAB: CHAOS LIVING

I can’t speak for all LGBTQ’s but we do like to cram it in. Clubbing, Gaydar, bars, Facebook & special interest groups etc hold the heavy schedule of largin’ it as lifestyle. When we go bang at it something has to give and it’s usually a balanced mind. In order to correct chaos living you need to own it first and just because everyone else is doing it, does not mean that you will manage it as well as others.

Chaos Living is an ability, and a desire not to confront which in time becomes a disability. Coupled with it sisters PROCRASTINATION, chem use and a hard drive for approval, the destination is RESCUE ME!… And a codependent ambulance is always at hand to hear your woes.

Not confronting anger, rejection and betrayal in relationships is just a starter. Not confronting credit card debt, overdrafts and early morning cashpoints is the seed for future moonlight flits, change of address, gone away etc. It is also sad to witness relationships that should have ended long ago but remain held together by debt, one staying just to get money back they loaned in the heady daze of romantic capture. It happens. Saying NO to m8’s is also something akin to public shame, another night out instead of doing the ironing. Gayers can’t resist an invitation in the guise of having fun or a cock in their mouth. Like str8 men, sex dominates the psyche but gays have the options to act it out instantly, and since we have been named and shamed by str8s for centuries, judging our own behavior is somehow bad form.